Sunday, January 22, 2012

You were blessed! (Do we cycle through our emotions the same as the moon?)



As I sat on the park bench enjoying the cool night air and gazing at the people who were taking a break from the rest of the world, two young lovers passed me by. And I overheard the woman say, "Honey, why can't the moon always be this full and beautiful as it is tonight?"

He replied, "I don't know dear, but I am glad we were blessed enough to see another one together." And that made me, well at first shed a tear at their exchanged words, but then it made me ask myself, "Why doesn't it?"

Then, of course, knowing me, I thought and thought some more. Then I concluded, how can we ask the moon to constantly shine so beautiful night after night if we as humans can not find it in ourselves to do the same? Why can't we find what it takes to remain illuminating creatures when we bear witness time after time of the glorious dreams we have shown to be so capable of.

Why do we so often blow out our candles and let the darkness escape to cover up a portion of our glow? Do we cycle through our emotions the same as the moon? Or why can't we consistently find the peace and love that I can so clearly recognize in this young couple: the way they grip each others hand as if they never want to let go, the way they walk so slowly in rhythm with one another as if their heartbeats our setting the pace, and the way they stare at each other as if they have found the gateway to the soul in each other's eyes.

Then I think again: maybe we "can" control the moon's luster; it's wholeness. Just maybe if we can find it in our hearts ourselves to shine with such a radiance, then maybe, overtime will we begin to notice as we look towards heaven on a clear night that we shall see the moon as full and as bright as we ourselves choose to be. Maybe we only deserve to see this brilliance so often. And maybe only when enough people can accumulate over a cycle enough love, peace, and goodwill towards one another shall the moon dazzle us in all her beauty.

So now whenever I think the moon is going through her cycle again, I will tell myself, "No... She is waiting on us to go through ours."

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Why you should never give up on the people you love



Like any good mother, when Karen found out that another baby was on the way, she did what she could to help her 3-year-old son, Michael, prepare for a new sibling.

They find out that the new baby is going to be a girl, and day after day, night after night, Michael sings to his sister in Mommy's tummy.

The pregnancy progresses normally for Karen, an active member of the Panther Creek United Methodist Church in Morristown, Tennessee. Then the labor pains come. Every five minutes, every minute. But complications arise during delivery. Hours of labor. Would a C-section be required?

Finally, Michael's little sister is born. But she is in serious condition. With siren howling in the night, the ambulance rushes the infant to the neonatal intensive care unit at St. Mary's Hospital, Knoxville, Tennessee. The days inch by. The little girl gets worse. The pediatric specialist tells the parents, "There is very little hope. Be prepared for the worst."

Karen and her husband contact a local cemetery about a burial plot. They have fixed up a special room in their home for the new baby now they plan a funeral. Michael, keeps begging his parents to let him see his sister, "I want to sing to her," he says.

Week two in intensive care. It looks as if a funeral will come before the week is over. Michael keeps nagging about singing to his sister, but kids are never allowed in Intensive Care. But Karen makes up her mind. She will take Michael whether they like it or not. If he doesn't see his sister now, he may never see her alive.

She dresses him in an oversized scrub suit and marches him into ICU. He looks like a walking laundry basket, but the head nurse recognizes him as a child and bellows, "Get that kid out of here now! No children are allowed. The mother rises up strong in Karen, and the usually mild-mannered lady glares steel-eyed into the head nurse's face, her lips a firm line.

"He is not leaving until he sings to his sister!"

Karen tows Michael to his sister's bedside. He gazes at the tiny infant losing the battle to live. And he begins to sing. In the pure hearted voice of a 3-year-old, Michael sings:

"You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy when skies are gray..."

Instantly the baby girl responds. The pulse rate becomes calm and steady.

Keep on singing, Michael.

"You never know, dear, how much I love you, Please don't take my sunshine away..."

The ragged, strained breathing becomes as smooth as a kitten's purr.

Keep on singing, Michael.

"The other night, dear, as I lay sleeping, I dreamed I held you in my arms..."

Michael's little sister relaxes as rest, healing rest, seems to sweep over her.

Keep on singing, Michael.

Tears conquer the face of the bossy head nurse. Karen glows.

"You are my sunshine, my only sunshine. Please don't, take my sunshine away."

Funeral plans are scrapped. The next day, the very next day, the little girl is well enough to go home! Woman's Day magazine called it "the miracle of a brother's song." The medical staff just called it a miracle. Karen called it a miracle of God's love!

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The more hurt and pain you have gone thru in life, the stronger and more beautiful your heart will be!



The more hurt and pain you have gone thru in life, the stronger and more
beautiful your heart will be.

One day a young man was standing in the middle of the town proclaiming that he had the most beautiful heart in the whole valley.

A large crowd gathered and they all admired his heart for it was perfect. There was not a mark or a flaw in it. Yes, they all agreed it truly was the most beautiful heart they had ever seen. The young man was very proud and boasted more loudly about his beautiful heart.

Suddenly, an old man appeared at the front of the crowd and said, "Why your heart is not nearly as beautiful as mine." The crowd and the young man looked at the old man's heart. It was beating strongly, but full of scars, it had places where pieces had been removed and other pieces put in, but they didn't fit quite right and there were several jagged edges. In fact, in some places there were deep gouges where whole pieces missing.

The people stared. How can he say his heart is more beautiful?? they thought. The young man looked at the old man's heart and saw its state and laughed. "You must be joking," he said. "Compare your heart with mine, mine is perfect and yours is a mess of scars and tears."

"Yes," said the old man, "Yours is perfect looking but I would never trade with you. You see, every scar represents a person to whom I have given my love - I tear out a piece of my heart and give it to them, and often they give me a piece of their heart which fits into the empty place in my heart, but because the pieces aren't exact, I have some rough edges, which I cherish, because they remind me of the love we shared. Sometimes I have given pieces of my heart away, and the other person hasn't returned a piece of his heart to me. These are the empty gouges - giving love is taking a chance. Although these gouges are painful, they stay open, reminding me of the love I have for these people too, and I hope someday they may return and fill the space I have waiting. So now do you see what true beauty is?"

The young man stood silently with tears running down his cheeks. He walked up to the old man, reached into his perfect young and beautiful heart, and ripped a piece out. He offered it to the old man with trembling hands.

The old man took his offering, placed it in his heart and then took a piece from his old scarred heart and placed it in the wound in the young man's heart. It fit, but not perfectly, as there were some jagged edges.

The young man looked at his heart, not perfect anymore but more beautiful than ever, since love from the old man's heart flowed into his.

They embraced and walked away side by side.

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Monday, November 21, 2011

Awesome Tips for Being Yourself!!!

Tips For Being Yourself

So you might be compelled to conform to societal or esoteric norms to be granted certain privileges and bask in the sense of belonging. You ought to connect with your inner self and liberate yourself from all bondages created by society. Discovering the “real you” is the gradual but therapeutic process which is going to be worth your time.

  • Who Are You?

There’s no possible way you can be yourself without knowing who you really are. You pretend to idolize football player David Beckham because your neighbor does and you want to gain his approval. Soon enough you will realize that you don’t know what interests you because you’ve been whiling away time with what least interests you. Understand yourself, figure out where your deepest passion lies and be proud of your qualities. Contemplate your life and the choices you’ve made. Take personality tests and you will eventually disentangle the buried mesh of what had been your true interests and hobbies all along! Accept it with pride!

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  • Breathe & Be Honest

Why do you want to live through the rest of your life safeguarding your sticky web of lies? Life is never rosy for anybody. Maybe at the beginning, you might not be as fortunate as certain other coveted beings. Nevertheless, if you hold your breath and take each day as it comes, life’s delicate balance will soon manifest itself. There is no good reason to be ashamed of who you are. Whether it’s a physical or mental shortcoming, the most trusted way to overcoming it is by acknowledging it with courage. We are all blighted with flaws and by hiding them, we are only adding to that list!

  • Believe In Yourself

Take off that hideous mask and unleash the beauty hidden underneath its eternal ugliness! If you try to be what you’re not, you’re going to be unhappy through the remainder of your fake life. Thrive on solitude, engage in soul searching and you will soon be well acquainted with your new best friend- The Real You. Life will soon turn into a elongated party interspersed with memorable episodes of sadness, joy, laughter, bitterness and all the emotions experienced in the life that is worth living!

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This is the list everyone should have!!!

The List Everyone Should Have

The Yuletide season is already in the air. What typical Christmas list are you trying to have?

Close your eyes for a while and try pondering this special list which everyone should own. You can make a separate list aside from giving priorities on whom are you giving your gifts.

1. If you feel far away from God, guess who moved?
2. Fear knocked. Faith answered. No one was there.
3. What you are is God's gift to you. What you become is your gift to God.
4. I am God's melody of life and He sings His song through me.
5. We can never really go where God is not, and where He is, all is well.
6. No matter what is happening in your life, know that God is waiting
for you with open arms.
7. God promises a safe landing, not a calm passage.
8. Do your best and then sleep in peace. God is awake.
9. God has a purpose and plan for me that no one else can fulfill.
10. The will of God will never take you to where the grace of God will
not protect you.
11. We are responsible for the effort, not the outcome.
12. We set the sail; God makes the wind.
13. Begin to weave and God will give you the thread.
14. Sometimes when God says "no", it's because He has something better
in store for you.
15. The task ahead of us is never as great as the power behind us.
16. Prayer: don't bother to give God instructions, just report for
duty.
17. It's my business to do God's business and it's His business to
take care of my business.
18. Serenity is not freedom from the storm, but peace amid the storm.
19. How come you're always running around looking for God? He's
not lost.
20. God put me on earth to accomplish a number of things; right
now I'm so far behind I will live forever.

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Ways to Overcome Christmas Stress

Ways to Overcome Christmas Stress


Reducing Christmas anxiety and stress can be as simple as taking a walk and sipping hot chocolate, or as complicated as creating a schedule for your family, to make your holidays happy.

1. Get specific and practical about Christmas anxieties. Figure out exactly what you’re stressed about at Christmas, and deal with it. For example, if you’re worried about money, then do a gift exchange and draw names in your family. Or, research inexpensive, easy homemade gifts (eg, jars of dry cookie mix or a card detailing exactly what you and others love and appreciate about someone). Consider Christmas gift shopping online, but do it early! If you’re worried about your diet and exercise levels, schedule specific times to exercise – and stick with your plan. Deal with your stress in practical ways, and remember that holiday anxiety increases when you feel like you have no control.

2. Ask for help to reduce holiday anxiety. If you’re cooking Christmas dinner for the family and are filled with holiday anxiety, ask for help from your friends and family. If you don’t know what gifts to give to family and friends, ask for suggestions. If you’re worried that your uncle will get drunk and mean, contact a counselor or family member for practical ways to prevent or alleviate the situation. Ending holiday anxiety involves reaching out to others, especially over the Christmas season. Holiday stress and Christmas anxiety will be easier to overcome when you don’t feel like you’re in it alone.

3. Accept imperfections to overcome stress. The family will fight, the gifts will disappoint, the dog will knock down the tree, and the turkey will be dry. It’s inevitable that some troubles will arise during the holiday season; going with the flow and accepting the flaws as part of life is key to overcoming Christmas stress. Holiday season anxiety – and many types of stress – comes from unrealistic expectations. When you accept the imperfections, you’ll reduce holiday anxiety because you’ll have realistic goals and expectations.

4. Treat yourself well over the holiday season. Pamper yourself with a massage, pedicure, manicure or day spa (but book it early!). Work up a sweat by skating, snowshoeing or exercising at the gym – physical activity is one of the best ways to reduce holiday season anxiety. Express your feelings to a friend, in your journal, or with music. Get enough sleep. Go to a movie in the middle of the day. Indulge in some chocolate or holiday baking, but don’t overindulge.

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Thursday, July 28, 2011

"Whatever goals you have in your life, and no matter where you are start, someone has succeeded at something similar or even more difficult!"

"Whatever goals you have in your life, and no matter where you are start, someone has succeeded at something similar or even more difficult, starting with less than you have."

There may be some of you out of the six billion on the planet for whom this doesn't apply. Perhaps some really want to do things that are far beyond anything a man or woman has ever done, so I apologize to the fifty of you. As for the rest of you, what do you want?

Want a loving partner? Somebody less attractive, charming and intelligent than you is getting happily married somewhere today.

Want to create a new food and successfully market it? You probably already have more resources than Harlan Sanders had when he started trying to sell his Kentucky Fried Chicken.

Want a big beautiful home? Three or more people in your town have such a home after being poorer than you at some point in their lives.

Anthony Hopkin's character, in the movie "The Edge," says "What one man can do, another can do."

He goes on to kill the bear that is stalking him. What if you aren't as strong, as rich, or as smart as others?

Not all those who have done great things were always stronger, smarter and richer than you. Just like them, you can learn the right things, take the right actions and put in the effort.

This is why this is an inspirational thought. See where some people started from, and you'll find yourself saying, "Hey! If he can do it, I can too."

I told a guy he could save money to buy a home, and he claimed he just didn't have any extra to save. He forget that he already knew several people who were making less money than him and surviving just fine.

If he lived like those people for a while, couldn't he bank the difference? (Just say yes - finding reasons why you can't do something is a terrible habit to encourage.)

Would you like a date for this Friday? How?

Here's a clue: An awkward young man asked a woman friend why he couldn't get a date. She asked if he had asked anyone out. After he thought about it for a moment he said, "No."

"That's why," she told him. Better example: I know a jerk who always had a date - after asking twenty women a week out. These are lessons, aren't they? If a geek and a jerk can get a date, you can too, right?

Colonel Sanders drove around in an old van living off his social security check as 900 restaurants told him they were not interested in his recipe. One eventually said yes, and he eventually made millions of dollars. Maybe this could inspire us to try something more than three times?

People come here with little money and speaking little English and end up owning restaurants and stores. If you want to own a restaurant or store, find out how they do it.

There are almost three million millionaires in the U.S. If you really want millions, read their stories, talk to them, and learn how to make money.

Whatever you want to do, someone has done it, starting from a worse situation than yours. If they can do it, you can too!

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It costs nothing to smile! How could you have a more positive outlook on life which will bring positive results??


I often wonder why people seem reluctant to smile these days. It costs nothing to smile so come on people lets start looking a bit happier. How could you have a more positive outlook on life which will bring positive results??

I am somebody who used to always think in a negative way, I have now managed to stop this and my life has improved no end. I now like to be around positive people, as these people tend to be more successful and happier.

In my opinion there are too many people who are always moaning and groaning and are seemingly depressed.

Growing up I had many things to be negative about, I had a stutter, I have a bald patch.

I was one of the ones who walked around in a depressed state and I used to feel sorry for myself. Even when I write about it now, I laugh about how stupid I used to be.

I realised early into my twenties that I needed to change my approach to life. I was quite fortunate in that I had a friend at the company I worked for, who was to prove an inspiration to me. His name was Mike, and even though this may seem cruel, Mike did not have a lot going for him. I won't go into details but lets just say even with the problems I felt I had, I was not jealous of him.

I became quite good friends with Mike and we would regularly have lunch together. I would meet him in the canteen at 1pm and would be waiting in my gloomy state of mind, with my gloomy face, for him to arrive. Arrive he certianly did, always with a beaming smile on his face. This always amazed me as I could never understand what he had to be happy about. We would sit down and talk whilst eating our lunch and he never had a negative word to say.

When he talked, he talked with passion, about his work and interests. One day it dawned on me, if he seemingly has nothing going for him) can always be positive, happy and smiling, why can't I?

This was the beginning of my new outlook on life. An era of being positive, appreciating what I have got and more than anything else, plenty of smiles. I now am happy with my weight, height, bald patch and am proud to say I have now overcome my stutter.

As you live through life, here are some questions worth asking!

Is life worth living without a dream?

We all need dreams and goals to get us through the days and years. If they are big and take years to achieve or rather 5 mins is insignificant, they are all important!

Can you truly be satisfied living someone elses dream?
NO, If you can be satisfied then it isn't someone elses dream but rather your own!

What is your potential?
More than you'll ever know

Will you ever fulfill it?
If your not worried about going too far then yes you will! "The only people who realize their potential are those who risk going all the way"

Or were they never able or had the potential themselves to begin with?
Potential has no limits!

Is wanting success selfish?
I think if you keep things in perspective and don't let the success take over your life and most of all don't think your better than anyone!!!! You just have different talents and dreams.

Are we all selfish?
I do believe we are all selfish , in that everything we do or say positive for someone else is a way of feeling good about ourselves..... What? Well when do we feel the best about ourselves? How about after giving someone a present or donating money to a charity.... so by saying that is being selfish a bad thing? At times, not at all!

How to find true happiness?
I believe balance is number 1 and I believe in our lives we will find our greatest happiness using the gifts that god gave us and making the most of them.

Are their rules in being in LOVE?
Just being true to yourself always

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Saturday, July 09, 2011

De-clutter, simplify and eliminate unwanted stuffs from your life! (11 ways!)


Most of us know for a fact that cluttering one’s place, either the home or the office can provide negative effects to one’s health, finances, family, and life in general. A lot of people find it so easy to mess up and encumber their homes with stuff they actually don’t need.

With the tons of paperwork that need to be done in the office, you find your desk all messed up with all sorts of paper and documents. Or perhaps you love the kitchen so much that you always buy things to a point that most of them haven’t even been used. You get your first credit card and you uncontrollably fill it with unnecessary purchases and shopping sprees. In no time, you will realize that you are just actually complicating what used to be a simple and happy life.

Nonetheless, you can always go back and learn these 11 ways to de-clutter and live a simple life!

1. Start With One Simple Step

De-cluttering is actually easier said than done. The most common mistake people commit is when they get too overwhelmed with the idea. This means that you cannot just think of it today and expect to be successful the next day. It involves a very long and sometimes tedious process. Take it one step at a time. You will realize soon that you’re actually getting it the right way through gradual and small steps.

2. Take the Pressure out First

By the time you start to feel the need to de-clutter, do not be pressured by it. Always remember that it is your own choice to do it. If you want to live a simpler and cleaner life, always view the ways to de-clutter as a fun experience, not a task that your boss tells you to do.

3. Create an Effective Plan

To de-clutter means to get rid of some stuff that’s clogging your home or work space. It means that you have to find a place where to place them. You must as well label them based on what you’re planning to do in the future. Some things must be thrown away for good while others may be recycled.

4. Keep Thinking About Less

If you want to de-clutter, get rid of stuff that you haven’t used for many months or years now. Thinking less means buying one new phone instead of two or using a combination of shampoo and conditioner rather than purchasing them separately.

5. Forget the Sentimental Value

A lot of people struggle to get rid of stuff because they mean something to them. An old pair of unusable shoes can clutter the shoe rack simply because you don’t have the guts to get rid of it since it was given by your grandma. Keep it real – you can keep it in your storage room if you want.

6. Organize

To de-clutter does not always mean to get rid of things. It also means organizing them. You might want to place storage boxes or drawers in the kitchen that will group cooking ingredients and stuff together, so that you won’t be having a hard time finding them if you need them or you will not be annoyed by the mess around the kitchen.

7. Recycle

One of the reasons why people tend to clog up and clutter their homes is because of the feeling that they have to buy something to replace old ones. But through recycling and re-use, you not only save money, you can also ensure that you don’t add useless stuff to an already limited space and storage in your kitchen or bedroom.

8. Make Sure You Have a Goal in Mind

There is no point in seeking to de-clutter if you don’t have a goal. Having a goal means you will be inspired to continue the task of de-cluttering until you become successful.

9. Set an Example

If you are living with a partner or your parents, you must show them how committed you are in hoping to live a simpler life through de-cluttering the home. There is a good chance that they will follow suit if you set an example.

10. Consider De-Clutter as a Daily Routine

No matter how organized we become, there will always be days when you fail to arrange and clean up your room before you leave or wash the kitchen tools after you use them. Nonetheless, you can be effective if you clean up and de-clutter on a daily basis.

11. Have Fun

But the most important thing of them all is you need to ensure that you’re doing it with fun. Never think of it as something that needs to be done. Instead, think of it as something that will benefit you in the long run.

Swarming your environment with needless and unwanted clutters can lead to pressure, anxiety, and a totally unhealthy lifestyle. But as soon as you start to de-clutter, everything will simply loosen up and you begin to feel more relaxed and relieved.

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Wednesday, June 01, 2011

8 POWERFUL Ways to Create a Happy Family (resolve all family conflicts!)


I believe finding happiness and success are more than just money.

If you are not finding happiness in your family, this is to remind you that you have the power to improve your life within your family.

Here are some helpful tips to start creating a HAPPY family!

1. Start with yourself.

Finding happiness starts by deciding that you will create the loving spirit that can create a happy family. Develop an energy and personality where simply your spirit and presence will heal others and rejuvenate your family.

2. Heal within any feelings of mistrust or anger.

This can seem to be an impossible task. But it is achievable and vital to finding happiness and success.

Ask yourself this question and give yourself a true answer: “Am I contributing to family happiness or unhappiness?”

3. Heal within any feelings of mistrust or anger.

This can seem to be an impossible task. But it is achievable and vital to finding happiness and success.

People make mistakes. Some make them only once. Others repeat their mistakes over and over. Each person is doing the best they can at the emotional intelligence level they have achieved.

If someone is being hurtful, angry or attacking, they are living at a very low emotional intelligence level.

That doesn’t mean you need to live in this painful place with them.

Practice treating everyone in the family with love. You may not be able to be around them because of their chosen personality or behaviors. You can pray, intend or send loving energy to them.

Your loved ones will receive it and the power of love will heal them in remarkable ways, often better than we could have dreamed.

And remember, to be able to give energy to another person, you yourself need to have those energy! And in order that you have sufficient energy yourself, set aside time every day (and i really meant every day!) engaging in activities that will boast your energy - this includes fitness routines, making connection with nature, meditation, yoga or daily prayers!

4. Encourage high regard for each other.

Teach, by example, that each family member accepts all others and lets each be who they are.

With some wisdom and insight, it is easy to see how people’s personalities have developed. Even if you are repulsed by someone, it is possible to see why they act as they do.

When the development process and history of their personalities is respected, even the most difficult people lighten up. When people feel understood, they no longer feel the need to defend.

Love and acceptance of each person’s history will create the feeling of goodwill and real understanding.

5. Don’t be a part of family problems.

Heal yourself and become a cure.

Don’t tell your family you have chosen to do this. Just do it. They will notice the difference.

Your newly chosen emotional levels will create positive results. With your lead and example, your family members can learn to love and respect each other.

6. Have no certain expectations chiseled in stone.

Rather, expect the best and be open to what that manifests as. When we expect something certain we are often limiting the outcome by our own limited thinking.

Do not expect everyone to change at once or that it will come easily. For some the change seems immediate, for others it can take time.

For some healing will seem effortless, others will need to hit rock-bottom before they begin. For some people, letting go of harmful beliefs, hurtful thinking and destructive prejudices can happen only gradually, sometimes only after personal pain or disasters.

This is sometimes a challenge because we want things right now.

Many times I say to myself, “why can’t these other people just choose to do the right things?”

Pray their healing will be a safe, loving and wonderful experience. The most important element is that someone must start the healing. It will pick up for others from there.

7. Believe in assistance from a Higher Power.

This is a non-religious, non-denominational, spiritual step.

Miracles can and will happen for those who ask for help from a Source of 100% pure light and love. Every day, spend some time reading the words of the masters and engaging yourself in higher teachings. These teachings have already existed and are made available for you here!

Always remember, choose actions and options that are 100% pure light and love. The power to 'choose' is made available to you by a higher power!

8. Intend only the best for each family member. Link
One person using their power of intention by sending energy of 100% pure light and love to other family members, though he or she may do it without others knowing, will in time see others are motivated to improve their lives.

When the intention of 100% pure light and love becomes a family practice, members will grow deeper in spiritual connection and have an easier time finding happiness.

Ultimately, you can change even the toughest family situation for the better.

You can help family member experience success and help yourself in the process of finding happiness.

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Friday, May 27, 2011

7 ways you CAN live a life of purpose and love! (Believe that you are the architect of your destiny!)


You have a bright idea hidden somewhere in the back of your mind that you just can't wait to test out.

The question is, do you really want to bring it out into the light? What could motivate you to churn your creative, inspiring juices to their utmost flavor?

Did you know that it always helps to set a time limit to your personal goals?

Set yourself up so you can accomplish the most tasks in record time. For example, mowing the lawn in an hour before the big game on TV. A correct and positive attitude in whatever you do will make things easier, and even enjoyable.

It's simple. If you begin to allow yourself a bit of positive thinking then you will begin to realize things that you never thought possible.

Discover some tips to make it through your first week of possibility thinking even if you're just sitting in your favorite couch. Your mind is constantly at work for you. Tap into it's great resource while doing everyday activities.

1. Love. Commit to yourself.

Then commit to those you love to powerfully create a life you can love. Instead of reacting, commit to creating from your heart and soul, out of love rather than fear. The American Dream will always be there, but a dream will still be a dream without motion. Be amazed as the transformation begins.

2. Act.

You must take passionate action towards living your life by design.

Talk is cheap. Action = deposits in the bank of a passionately authentic future. My mother (probably quoting someone else) always said, "Action speaks louder than words". Without action, passion is void.

Dreams become reality when you simply start by tinkering with your mind, then with your hands. And if the idea weakens or falters you can always go back to it later until you finish it. Thomas Edison and his Dream Team had to go back to the idea of a light bulb and recalculate it over 1,000 times before the first working light bulb begin to light the world.

3. Be grateful.

Dwell completely in a place of gratitude. Learn to utilize what you have in your hands and make use of it in the most constructive way. Necessity is the mother of invention. Have you ever been stuck without something you needed and had to make do with something else?

How grateful were you that you had the means to solve your situation? Slipping into neediness will become less of a habit when you repeatedly shift towards gratitude and away from poverty consciousness.

4. Live. Embrace moments and opportunities.

Recognize and embrace the thought that each moment is perfect regardless of its outcome.

Every time you hit on something that may appear too extreme why not give it a shot anyway. See if it will work. You may be surprised with the results.

If you are not then decide to use that moment to learn from it and make the appropriate shift. Learning and growing from mistakes and failures is a part of living.

5. Be Passionate.

Use a Passion Formula of 'recognize, re-evaluate, restore' in place of the Shoulda, Woulda, Coulda whirlwind. The former is based on increased knowledge and abundance while the latter focuses on scarcity and lack.

As you face people or tasks that may seem harder than scaling the summit of the Himalayas, allow yourself to realize that the task is just as important as giving out orders to your subordinates. You would rather be richly passionate!

6. Laugh.

Keep humor at the forefront of thought, laughing at and with yourself whenever possible. You may find yourself quite entertaining when you loosen up! I have yet to see a comedian ever go hungry even though his jokes are as 'old as great-grandma'.

7. Discover Your Purpose.

Believe that you are the architect of your destiny. Realizing how you wish to be remembered when you pass from this life is a truly driving force. Your purpose for being can be a seemingly simple as being a great parent to as elaborate as discovering miraculous cures.

When you have a strong purpose no one can take your passionate future from you except for you! Truly, as long as there's still breath in your body, there is no end to how much you can accomplish in a lifetime.

Discovering and following your purpose will enable you to enjoy your work.

Celebrate in the discovery that acting on your creative mind's thoughts is fulfilling your purpose.

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